My 6 year old son has been a part of the Brain Balance Program for a little over 2 months. He has Functional Disconnect Syndrome – FDS, and is Right Brain Weak. It is absolutely amazing to me the progress he has made on the program in such a short amount of time! There are so many areas that we’ve seen changes in, and we are so glad we found this program instead of going down the road of having him diagnosed with Autism or ADHD and the doctors recommending different medications to change his mood. Brain Balance is definitely a great fit for our family.
The one area that has changed and had one of the biggest impacts on me the past few days is touch. You see, my son doesn’t like to give hugs to anyone really. He’ll hug me, his dad, and my dad…but everyone else that is immediate family he is very reluctant to hug. He will usually do it because he has learned that we hug when we say goodbye, but he doesn’t ever want to. I just thought that this was who he was. I didn’t realize that “Some children with FDS can be extremely sensitive to touch. They’ll squirm away from a hug and keep a distance when sitting with their family.” –Disconnected Kids by Dr. Robert Melillo
Well , this past weekend he spent time with my mom and step-dad. My step-dad was amazed at the changes he saw in our kid. He said that he asked him to sit with him during a movie they were watching, and that he gave him a real hug! It made me think about how my son was even interacting with me lately…
I thought about his hugs recently and how he has been putting his arm around me when he sits on the couch with me. I thought about his schoolwork and how I’m able to be closer to him to show him how to hold his pencil or how to write a letter without him becoming irritated.
I get a little teary eyed realizing that he is beginning to FEEL! Previous to Brain Balance he had little to no empathy and truly didn’t understand others emotions, let alone his own. The fact that he has begun to give real hugs, and that he lets me give him kisses is a change that this momma is LOVING! You see, many children who are right brain weak are not able to show empathy or understand emotion because that part of their frontal lobe hasn’t developed so that they can. It’s something that I took for granted before, but now I am so incredibly thankful for the work he is doing.
How do you celebrate progress with your kids? How do you effectively praise and encourage your children with they are doing well? We are doing our best to recognize his small changes and praise him when we see the differences for the good in him.
I’m going to continue with other blog posts of his progress and changes we have made in different areas. Follow along on our blog, and our Facebook page, Wellness Momma –> here.